Submit a PhotoIt is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Spencer James Lindahl, who left this world too soon and unexpectedly, just days before his 44th birthday. Born on November 8, 1980, in Mission Viejo, California, Spencer made an immediate impression by breaking the hospital records for both weight and height. He was big in birth, big in life, and big in the way he lived. Nothing he did was ever halfway—everything was approached with boundless enthusiasm and hard work.
Spencer was a beloved husband, father, son, brother, and friend. To those who knew him, he was a man whose wisdom seemed limitless. His advice was frequently sought, and he had an extraordinary gift for making everyone feel valued and heard. Few knew that Spencer’s truest peace was found on the back of a horse, moving cattle, or on a tractor, helping to build a fence line on his family’s ranch in Colorado—his happy place, where he felt most at home. Another of Spencer’s passions was flying—he found freedom and exhilaration in the skies that matched his adventurous spirit.
Above all else, Spencer’s greatest joy came from being a husband and father. His love for his wife, Melinda Bowen Lindahl, was matched only by his deep and unwavering love for their children: Lexus, Kimball, Elise, and McLaren. Spencer’s family was his heart. His every action, big or small, was motivated by a desire to give them the best life possible. He poured his time, energy, and love into creating a home filled with happiness, bear hugs, and gospel teachings. His family was his pride and inspiration, and he dedicated himself fully to them.
Spencer’s commitment to service was evident in everything he did. He was a man of deep faith, with an unwavering testimony of Jesus Christ that guided his actions throughout his life. He was the first to volunteer and the last to leave, always with a happy heart. His willingness to serve others, especially in his church, and his ability to lead by example touched many lives. As a youth, Spencer was a leader among his friends, and those strong relationships carried on throughout his life.
In his professional life, Spencer was known for his intellect and his ability to handle high levels of stress with confidence. He built and managed several businesses with integrity and determination, but it was his character—his honesty, humor, and willingness to always lend a helping hand—that made him truly stand out. Spencer had a playful spirit, a sense of humor that could brighten any room, and a knack for making everyone feel like family. His made-up songs, his dancing, his infectious laughter—these are the things we will always remember about Spencer. He was, as many described him, a “gentle giant.”
Spencer served a faithful mission in Quetzaltenango, Guatemala, for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, where he continued to develop his faith and leadership skills. During college, he met the love of his life, Melinda Bowen, and they were married in the Provo, Utah Temple. Their marriage was filled with love, fun, and always praise as they raised their children and built a life together. The family moved from Provo, Utah, to Chandler, Arizona, to Austin, Texas, and ultimately back to Gilbert, Arizona, where Spencer continued to thrive in both business and family life.
The loss of Spencer will be deeply felt by his family, friends, business colleagues, and extended family. He touched the lives of countless people, and his legacy of kindness, generosity, and humor will continue to inspire all who knew him. No matter what life threw his way, whenever asked how he was doing, Spencer’s answer was always the same: “I’m having a fabulous day.” That optimism and positive spirit will always be remembered by those close to him.
He is survived by his adoring wife, Melinda, and their four children: Lexus, Kimball, Elise, and McLaren. Spencer’s commitment to family extended far beyond his role as a husband and father. He was a deeply loving son to his parents, James Blaine Lindahl and Colette (Brown) Lindahl, and a devoted brother to Ryan Lindahl (Misty), Tara (Lindahl) Bowen (Dean), and Barrie Lindahl (Lacy). Spencer’s warm and caring nature touched the hearts of many, especially his nieces and nephews, who adored him deeply. He shared a special bond with each of them. He is also remembered by his aunts, uncles, and cousins, all of whom will miss him dearly.
A funeral service to honor Spencer’s life will be held on Friday, November 15, at 11:00 a.m. at 7126 E. McKellips Rd., Mesa, Arizona, 85207. There will be a visitation the night before on the 14th from 5:00–8:00 p.m. at 234 N. Greenfield Rd., Gilbert, Arizona, 85234. The graveside dedication will take place at Eastlawn Cemetery in Provo, Utah, at a later date. For further details, please visit Bunker Family Mortuary’s website.
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Spencer will be deeply missed but never forgotten. His heart, love, and zest for life will live on in all those who had the privilege of knowing him.
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Spencer hired me to manage the San Antonio branch of Main Street Renewal. My first impression of him was a lasting one. He was exactly what he appeared to be; a great man!
I knew Spencer when he was a young man. He went to school with my son Christopher Ingersoll and good friend David Neal. I always loved Spencer – he was gregarious and cheerful – and kind. Just like his Dad. My heart breaks for his family. So very grateful he will be reunited with them for eternity. Prayers continually for his family.
Dear Melinda and Family – We are sending our sincere condolences for your recent loss and we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Dear James and Colette, I send my condolences to you and the entire Spencer family. May the Lord bring peace and comfort to your hearts. The entire Lindahl family is in our prayers. We love you all.
Lasting impression: etched in my mind is seeing Brother Lindahl up on stand with the primary kids singing, he was happy to be there and he knew the songs. My heart and prayers go out to Melinda and his family.
What a wonderful first impression Spencer made. I had the honor of meeting him and visiting with him at Falcon Field on many occasions. It was always a great day when Spencer would drop in to visit. I will miss him. I will miss his visits and conversations. I am so sorry for your loss. I find peace knowing your family will reunite someday. May peace and comfort find your family.
Spencer (Elder Lindahl) was my last companion in the Guatemala Quetzaltenango mission where we served. We spent my last 6 weeks traveling around to various parts of Guatemala visiting with different missionaries and teaching the gospel. He was a remarkable missionary and a great leader, and I knew he would be successful in life. He had such a great laugh and we had an amazing time together. I send my condolences to his family.
What an incredibly surreal experience. I can almost still hear Spencer speaking in his steady, measured voice. He was always the type of person willing to try something new. I remember him introducing me to Uber long before it became mainstream. I like to think he’s probably up in heaven, either selling something grand, optimizing a process, or making someone feel special—just like he always did.
Spencer started at Amherst a year or so after I did. He called me right before I left the company to let me know that if I ever needed anything, I could always reach out to him. Thankfully, I missed that first call, and it went to voicemail. Now, I’ll always have a recording of Spencer calling me “Sneaky Jojo!”—a keepsake I’ll cherish forever. Praying for peace for his beloved family and friends.
I feel very lucky to have had Spencer as a young men’s/scout leader for a few years growing up. I have so many great memories with him. Notably, hiking the tallest peak in Arizona, camping by the beach in San Diego, scuba diving in Lake Pleasant, boating at Lake Powell and taking members in the hospital the sacrament. Spencer was always making us laugh while at the same time teaching us by example how to be good men and future husbands and fathers. I’m sure as teenage boys we were annoying at times, but Spencer never made us feel like an inconvenience. Spencer was always the first to volunteer when someone needed help moving (which my family benefited from several times). He would always be cracking jokes as you passed him carrying boxes which made the time fly-by. I’m very grateful for his influence on my life and will not forget the great man that he was. My heart goes out to Melinda, Lexus, Kimball, Elise, and McLaren.