Submit a PhotoJohn D’Onofrio, a devoted husband, loving father, proud grandfather, and loyal friend, passed away suddenly surrounded by the love of his family.
John was the beloved husband of Maryann D’Onofrio, with whom he shared a beautiful and enduring marriage since September 9, 1972. Together, they built a life centered on love, family, and unwavering partnership.
He was a dedicated and caring father to Andrea Allen (Gregory) and John Philip Donofrio (Amy). Nothing brought John more joy than his family, and he took immense pride in being a constant source of love and support in their lives. He was a cherished grandfather to Luke and Olivia Allen, and Roman, Iyla, and Gianna Donofrio, who filled his heart with happiness and were the light of his life. He also lovingly held in his heart his granddaughter Angeliyah, the late daughter of John Philip and Amy, whose memory remains as a meaningful part of their family.
Born in Brooklyn, New York, John and Maryann later made their home on Long Island for over 45 years. More recently they settled in Arizona, where he and Maryann built a beautiful life, surrounding themselves not only with family, but with new and deeply meaningful friendships.
John dedicated over 30 years of his career to Con Edison, where he was known for his strong work ethic and reliability. In addition to his work there, he also built and operated his own successful office cleaning business, reflecting his drive and commitment to providing for his family.
John had a deep love for classic cars—and really, all cars. He could often be found talking about them or admiring one wherever he went. He also enjoyed spending time at the gym and, above all, loved coming home to enjoy Maryann’s cooking. He was known for his humor and playful spirit, always quick with a joke or a smile. Silly, kind, and incredibly dependable, John was the kind of man people could always count on. His generosity knew no bounds, and he gave freely of himself to those he loved.
He was predeceased by his parents, Felice and Stella D’Onofrio, and his sister, Nancy, all of whom remained close in his heart throughout his life.
John will be remembered as an incredible husband, father, grandfather, and friend. His love for his family was unmatched, and the joy they brought him defined his life. His legacy of love, laughter, strength, and generosity will live on in all who knew and loved him.
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My mommy’s brother… my uncle…. A man that was so funny you would literally bust out laughing like you never laughed before! So so so many memories of laughter and tears. Always there to lend a hand to the family in any way he could. Dedicated to his family first and foremost as a father and husband. The only comfort I have is knowing he is now once again with the family that raised him, seeing his dad for the first time in over 50 years and able to hug him and his mom and his sister. Our loss is their gain. Rest in peace Uncle John… From the Holly to the Jolly we love you always. I hope you and mommy are laughing in the sky together ♥️.
So sorry for your loss. Mr. D was one of the nicest people I have ever met. I can still see him going station to station upstairs at the World Gym in Wantagh where I’d run into him all the time. From the days he used to drive Jay my brother Bill and me to days where I was old enough to drive myself. Strong and consistent. He will be missed by all who knew him. May he rest in peace and be a guardian angel to his family.
Andrea, my thoughts and prayers go to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss❤️
Mary Ann so sorry for you and your family. I didn’t have the honor of meeting you beloved but may his memory be a blessing. Shelley.
So deeply saddened to hear of this loss. Thoughts and prayers to the entire family.
My memories of John are always great ones you will be sorely missed my prayers go out for your loving family RIP John
Joe and I met John and Maryann when we were traveling in Italy. Our friendship remained throughout the years. Both him n Maryann were always great company n good friends. May he RIP.
I’m devastated by the loss of my cousin John. Reality hasn’t set in as of yet. There isn’t
much more left for me to say that wasn’t said in the above obituary, every word that was written is exactly what John was. John was the best of the best. I will miss him so very much. John, was my heart and soul as was his sister Nancy in a family of many. I can discribe him only as my little brother. I love you very much, I will miss you. You gave it a great fight that many would have thrown in the towel years ago. Rest in peace my little brother.
I am so sorry to hear about John. We played racquetball together in Wantagh and was loved by everybody. He was always kind and helpful to all. Sending love to all of his family. He will be missed!!
My dear Maryann, Andrea and John Philip, I share your sorrow, You were all very good and kind neighbors and friends. You are all loved. Love, Frances
Our friend John was always the gentleman. I enjoyed his humor, loved his smile. His eyes light up when Maryann was there. He will be remembered.
My deepest sympathy for my old friend Jay, his sister Andrea and their mother Mary Ann. John was a great family man. I considered Jay one of my best friends growing up. I was treated with nothing but kindness by his father, John. John loved his family and from my vantage point, he was a great dad. I spent many days and many nights in their house and was always treated like family. As I got older and wasn’t as close as i used to be with the family, I started seeing John at the gym and we would stop and talk and he would always give me some kind of advice about life. He would always ask how my parents and siblings were doing. I have great memories with John and his family and I’ll never forget his smile and his kindness. I still live in the old neighborhood and pass their house all the time while walking or riding bikes with my own kids and every time I pass the house I would think of John and his family and remember all of our good times. I took a walk around just the other day after I heard this terrible news and I stopped and just looked.. I could see him in the driveway washing his maroon Cadillac that he was so proud of, smiling and waving to me as I stood there. Even though it has probably been 20 years since the last time I saw him, as I stood there, it felt like 20 minutes..Thank you Mr D’onofrio for treating me so well…I’ll never forget you. God bless you and your family.
I am so sorry to hear this terrible news! My heart goes out to your family, and I pray you can take comfort in the wonderful memories you shared and will always have.
We enjoyed getting to know John over the years and will miss his presence at family gatherings. we saw how loving and devoted he was to his family and others. Things won’t be the same without him, but knowing a reunion in heaven awaits, gives us great peace.
I didn’t know John very well but I know he was a great guy and a great husband to Marianne!
Maryanne,
I’m so sorry to hear of your husband’s passing. I remember a conversation we had about John outside of the gym one day, and I could really feel the love you had for him. My deepest sympathies.
God bless John and your Family. So very sorry for your loss
Marc and Flora Marin
Maryann, Andrea, John Philip, I am so so very sorry for this very deep loss. It is such a shock to your system. I pray the Lord comforts you as only He can. His Word says, for those who know Him, absent from the body, present with the Lord. Our consolation is knowing we will be reunited again soon.
I worked with John at Con Ed. We were good friends and everyone who knew John admired him. It’s a great loss for his family and all his friends Will miss you my friend
We loved John almost from our very first meeting! He was easy to play with (especially loved joking around with his East Coast Italian sayings). He always made sure to share a dance with me (knowing Greg could no longer do so), he gave everyone his tips on the best Bartender to get at the Algarve, he bragged (rightfully so) about Maryann’s cooking prowess and preferred her meals over any restaurant any day, there was just so much LIFE in him and he made others want to grasp that same zest in their own. He has left his mark on our hearts and will be dearly missed by both of us. ❤️
Roy and I were delighted to hear that another couple in Encanterra came from our hometown: Setauket, NY. We did not know each other in NY and became friends at Encanterra. We really enjoy the Donofrios and often got together when we were in the same place at the same time. John felt like he could have been family. Our deepest condolences to Maryann and the entire family. We are so shocked and saddened.
Every word in this obituary describes John perfectly. We will surely miss him. The Quintanas
We are so saddened to hear about John’s passing. May he be surrounded by the Angels, and Jesus’s mercy leading him to heaven, where he’ll be united with his mom, dad, sister and granddaughter!!